Your neckline decides more about your hairstyle than your face shape does. A dress that shows your shoulders asks for something different from one with lace up to the chin, and a dress with an open back can lose its best detail under long loose hair.
Below are the seven most common wedding dress necklines, two hairstyles that work with each, and a bouquet that keeps the whole look in balance. There's a quick chart at the end to save for later.
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The one rule behind all of it
Look at where the dress stops and where your skin starts. Your hair should either frame that line or stay out of its way.
- High neckline or long sleeves: wear your hair up, so there's some open space at the neck.
- Low or open neckline: you can wear it down or half up, because there's room for it.
- Open back: wear it up. The back is the detail people will see when you walk down the aisle.
- Asymmetric neckline: sweep your hair to the side the dress leaves bare.
1. Sweetheart neckline
A sweetheart neckline dips into a soft heart shape and usually leaves the shoulders bare. It's romantic, so the hair can be too.
Hairstyle 1: a loose low bun with face-framing pieces. A few soft strands left around the face echo the curve of the neckline.
Hairstyle 2: long soft waves with one jeweled clip. Bare shoulders leave room for hair worn down. Pin one side back so the neckline still shows.
Bouquet to match: a round bouquet of roses, which repeats the soft curves. Try our white pearl rose bridal bouquet.
2. Halter neckline
A halter wraps around the neck and leaves the shoulders and arms open. It already draws the eye upward, so the hair should keep the neck clear.
Hairstyle 1: a high ponytail with waves. Lifts everything off the neck and shows the line of the halter.
Hairstyle 2: a sleek low bun. Clean and simple, which suits the clean shape of the dress.
Bouquet to match: something with long, clean lines, like calla lilies. See our white calla lily bridal bouquet.
3. Deep V neckline
A deep V draws a long line down the center of the body. Hair that falls forward can follow that line instead of fighting it.
Hairstyle 1: long loose waves. Waves falling over the shoulders frame the V and soften it.
Hairstyle 2: a braided crown updo. If you want your hair up, a braid adds texture so a low neckline doesn't feel bare.
Bouquet to match: a cascading bouquet, which carries the vertical line of the V further down. See our white cascading wedding bouquet.
4. Open back
An open or low back is the detail guests see most: while you walk down the aisle and while you stand at the altar. Covering it with hair hides the most expensive-looking part of the dress.
Hairstyle 1: a textured updo with a pearl or crystal pin. Keeps the back fully visible and gives the photographer a detail from behind.
Hairstyle 2: a high messy bun. A looser version for a relaxed or outdoor wedding.
Bouquet to match: a compact bouquet that doesn't cover the waist from the side. Orchids with pearl details look delicate from every angle. See our white orchid bridal bouquet with pearls.
5. Square neckline
A square neckline is straight and structured, often on a dress with straps. It looks good with both soft and polished hair.
Hairstyle 1: a low messy bun. Soft texture balances the straight lines of the neckline.
Hairstyle 2: half-up waves with a barrette. A pearl barrette at the back of the head adds a small detail without competing with the dress.
Bouquet to match: a neat round bouquet with a clean handle. Try our white rose bridal bouquet with pearl handle.
6. One shoulder
A one-shoulder dress is asymmetric, so the hair should balance it rather than repeat it.
Hairstyle 1: a low side bun on the bare side. Puts the volume where the dress leaves space.
Hairstyle 2: side-swept waves with a jeweled clip. Pin the hair back on the covered side and let it fall over the bare shoulder.
Bouquet to match: a slightly asymmetric bouquet that mixes shapes, like calla lilies with orchids. See our white calla lily and orchid pearl wedding bouquet.
7. Long sleeves and high necks
Lace sleeves and a high neck cover a lot, so the hair needs to give the face and neck some space.
Hairstyle 1: a sleek low bun. Classic and tidy, so the lace stays the focus.
Hairstyle 2: a low chignon with a decorative comb. A comb at the back adds a little sparkle above a covered neckline.
Bouquet to match: a slim, elegant bouquet that doesn't add more volume to an already detailed dress. Calla lilies with a pearl handle work well. See our calla lily bridal bouquet with pearl handle.
Quick chart: neckline, hair and bouquet
| Neckline | Hairstyles | Bouquet |
|---|---|---|
| Sweetheart | Loose low bun or soft waves with a clip | Round rose bouquet |
| Halter | High ponytail or sleek low bun | Calla lilies |
| Deep V | Loose waves or braided crown updo | Cascading bouquet |
| Open back | Textured updo or high messy bun | Compact orchid bouquet |
| Square | Low messy bun or half-up with a barrette | Neat round bouquet |
| One shoulder | Side bun or side-swept waves | Asymmetric calla and orchid |
| Long sleeves / high neck | Sleek low bun or chignon with a comb | Slim calla lily bouquet |
Choosing by the whole dress shape rather than the neckline? See which bouquet suits your wedding dress silhouette.
A note on veils
If you're wearing a veil, decide on it before the hairstyle. A veil needs something to anchor to: a bun or a half-up style holds a comb securely, while long loose waves can let a heavy veil slip. Bring the veil to your hair trial.
FAQ
Should I wear my hair up or down with a sweetheart neckline?
Either works. Bare shoulders leave room for loose waves, and a low bun with face-framing pieces looks just as good. Pin one side back if you wear it down so the neckline still shows.
What hairstyle goes with an open back wedding dress?
An updo. A textured bun or high messy bun keeps the back visible, which is the part guests see most during the ceremony.
What hairstyle is best with a halter wedding dress?
Something that keeps the neck clear: a high ponytail or a sleek low bun.
How do I choose a hairstyle for a one-shoulder dress?
Sweep your hair to the bare side, either in a low side bun or in side-swept waves, so the look stays balanced.
Does my bouquet need to match my neckline?
Not exactly, but it helps when they share a shape: soft round bouquets with curved necklines, long calla lilies with clean, simple ones, and cascading bouquets with a deep V.
Not sure which bouquet suits your dress? Send us a photo of your neckline and we'll help you choose.