The right bouquet is the one that's in proportion with your dress. A small posy disappears against a full ball gown, and a huge cascade can swallow a slim sheath. The dress silhouette is the easiest way to get the scale and shape right before you think about colors or flowers.
Here are seven common wedding dress silhouettes, two bouquet shapes that suit each, and a bouquet from our shop for every one. There's a quick chart at the end.
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The rule of proportion
Three things decide the bouquet shape:
- Volume of the skirt. The fuller the skirt, the larger the bouquet can be.
- Line of the dress. A long vertical line suits a long or trailing bouquet; a soft, classic line suits a round one.
- Amount of detail. A heavily beaded or lace dress needs a simpler bouquet so the two don't compete.
1. A-line
An A-line dress is fitted at the bodice and flares gently to the hem. It's the most classic silhouette, so a classic bouquet keeps the look calm and timeless.
Bouquet 1: a round rose bouquet. Medium size, held at the waist, it balances the top and bottom of the dress.
Bouquet 2: a hand-tied bouquet with eucalyptus. A little looser and greener, for a garden or outdoor wedding.
From our shop: the white pearl rose bridal bouquet or the ivory and champagne rose bouquet with eucalyptus.
2. Ball gown
A ball gown has a fitted bodice and a very full skirt. It needs a bouquet with enough presence not to get lost against all that volume.
Bouquet 1: a large round bouquet with a light cascade. The scale matches the skirt, and the short trail softens the shape.
Bouquet 2: a full statement bouquet with a wide satin ribbon. Big blooms mixed with smaller flowers, finished with ribbon long enough to move as you walk.
From our shop: the champagne ivory cascading bridal bouquet.
3. Mermaid and trumpet
A mermaid dress is fitted to the knee and flares out below it. The bouquet's job is to show off that fitted line, not hide it.
Bouquet 1: a cascading bouquet. The downward sweep repeats the long line of the dress and balances the flared hem.
Bouquet 2: an asymmetric trailing bouquet. Trailing greenery on one side, for a softer, more relaxed version.
If your mermaid dress is heavily beaded, go smaller and simpler so the dress stays the focus.
From our shop: the white cascading wedding bouquet, or the burgundy cascading bridal bouquet for a fall or winter wedding.
4. Sheath
A sheath or column dress falls straight from the shoulders with no flare. It's sleek and modern, and a bulky bouquet would break its line.
Bouquet 1: a slim bunch of long-stem calla lilies. Long stems lengthen the figure and match the clean line of the dress.
Bouquet 2: calla lilies with a pearl handle. The same shape with a polished finish, held low or in the crook of the arm.
From our shop: the white calla lily bridal bouquet or the calla lily bridal bouquet with pearl handle. To make your own, real touch calla lily stems come in a set of ten.
5. Boho
Boho dresses are soft and flowing, often with lace, sleeves or an empire waist. The bouquet should feel gathered rather than arranged.
Bouquet 1: a loose garden bouquet with trailing greenery. Uneven, airy and relaxed.
Bouquet 2: a bouquet with pampas and dried flowers. Natural textures for a desert, beach or fall wedding.
From our shop: the terracotta bridal bouquet for a warm boho palette, or the dusty pink peony and rose bouquet for a softer one.
6. Tea length and short dresses
A tea-length dress ends between the knee and the ankle; a mini ends above the knee. A big bouquet would cover most of a short skirt, so keep it small.
Bouquet 1: a small round posy. Compact and sweet, in proportion with a shorter hem.
Bouquet 2: a single rose with a long ribbon. The simplest option, and it looks deliberate rather than sparse.
From our shop: the 10 inch champagne rose bridal bouquet or the 10 inch blush rose bouquet with satin ribbon.
7. Modern and minimal
Clean crepe, structured satin, a jumpsuit or a suit: a modern look suits a bouquet with an unexpected shape.
Bouquet 1: a floral hoop. A ring with flowers on part of it. Light to carry and different from a traditional bouquet.
Bouquet 2: a minimal orchid bouquet. A few orchids, nothing else. Architectural and quiet.
From our shop: the burgundy rose pearl hoop bouquet, baby's breath hoops for bridesmaids, or the white orchid bridal bouquet with pearls.
Quick chart: dress silhouette and bouquet
| Silhouette | Bouquet shapes | Size |
|---|---|---|
| A-line | Round roses or hand-tied with eucalyptus | Medium |
| Ball gown | Large round with a light cascade, or statement with wide ribbon | Large |
| Mermaid / trumpet | Cascading or asymmetric trailing | Medium to large, long |
| Sheath / column | Long-stem calla lilies, pearl handle | Slim |
| Boho | Loose garden or pampas and dried flowers | Medium, airy |
| Tea length / mini | Small posy or a single stem with ribbon | Small |
| Modern / jumpsuit | Floral hoop or minimal orchids | Small to medium |
Matching your hair to your neckline too? See wedding hairstyles for every neckline.
Why faux bouquets make this easier
With a faux bouquet you can hold it next to your actual dress weeks before the wedding, at a fitting or at home, and see whether the size works. A fresh bouquet you only see on the morning of the wedding. Faux flowers also don't wilt during photos and can be kept after the day.
FAQ
What bouquet goes with an A-line wedding dress?
A medium round bouquet of roses, or a hand-tied bouquet with eucalyptus for an outdoor wedding. The classic shape matches the classic silhouette.
What bouquet goes with a mermaid dress?
A cascading or trailing bouquet. Its downward line repeats the fitted shape of the dress. For a heavily beaded mermaid dress, choose something smaller and simpler.
What bouquet goes with a ball gown?
A larger bouquet, round with a light cascade or finished with a wide ribbon, so it isn't lost against the full skirt.
What bouquet goes with a sheath or slim dress?
Long-stem calla lilies or another slim bouquet. A bulky round bouquet breaks the straight line of the dress.
What size bouquet should I carry with a short dress?
A small posy about 8 to 10 inches across, or a single stem with a ribbon.
Not sure which bouquet suits your dress? Send us a photo and we'll help you choose.